We all want somebody to love. We all want to be loved. And we all want to live happily ever after.
One of the most common questions people ask me during an intuitive reading is, “when will I fall in love”? And the answer is… whenever you choose to. You can fall in love at any time. You can fall in love right now, if you feel like it.
Falling in love is possible immediately because the feeling of falling in love is synonymous with the feeling of appreciation. I know that sounds simple, but it’s true.
When you first meet someone you like, you subconsciously look for things to appreciate about him or her. You also overlook anything that you don’t appreciate. The result is a feeling of giddiness and euphoria, not because of the other person, but because your energy field is aligned with the frequency of love and gratitude.
You can re-create this feeling at any time by thinking of someone in your life and taking inventory of all the things you appreciate about them. Better yet, use the person in your bathroom mirror as an example, and write down at least 25 things you appreciate about yourself.
What you’ll find is that the more you find things to appreciate about yourself, the more you will fall in love with yourself. Not in a pretentious way, but in a reverent, respectful, healthy way.
The bonus prize is that when you love yourself, the people in your life will mirror it back to you. You won’t have to wonder when you’re going to fall in love, because love will drop into your lap.
Some psychics will tell you that love is “just around the corner”, but I say that love has always been and will always be, right here.
You just have to tap in to it.
This is so me! It explains why I have this habit of ‘falling in love’ really quickly!! It’s nice to know I’m not alone.
I’ve found it freaks most people out when I express that love though :/.
Merri you are a radiant light! Hugs! kb xo
This is FILLED with Awesomeness … Thank you for sharing :o)
Thanks Mike! I appreciate the encouragement…. big hugs!
Beautiful post! I just celebrated my 6-month anniversary with Best Boyfriend Ever, so this is a good reminder to just keep appreciating him for the beautiful person he is — and myself, too! 🙂